When I was young, they waited until I was fifteen and then
slapped these beasts on my teeth. These days, they start much younger. But
unfortunately, that only means you end up wearing them twice. Izzy will wear
this set for a year and then a couple years later, have to wear them again for
a year. Which also means we get to pay for them twice. Gulp.
Paying for braces is not for the faint of heart. When I
wrote the check today, I almost had to sit down and grab a paper bag. After I
said a silent prayer, it turns out that I’m grateful for being able to write
that check because it means that I can afford it. It also helped me put my
parents in perspective. I am so grateful that my parents sacrificed so I could
wear braces back in the day. I wish my mom was alive so I could tell her.
The thing about sacrifice is that it isn’t as painful when
it’s for your kids. For them, it’s kind of worth it. For example, when a sick
little one wakes me up in the middle of the night, I pop up and am filled with
compassion. I will always sacrifice sleep for their well being. When my
husband’s dog wakes me, I’m scream bad words at her in my head and contemplate
how it would feel to drop her off at the shelter.
Just in case you were wondering, I would never do that. An
animal is a life-long commitment. At 2 a.m., I sometimes wonder how it would
feel.
But I’m way off track. Here I am talking about the dumb dog
when I should be talking about braces. Izzy has been going to the orthodontist
since she was five because her front tooth grew out instead of down. The poor
thing can’t even smile around it. The doctor said we could wait for a couple
more years but because it sticks out to far, it is much more likely to be
chipped and that can be expensive and painful. Plus, the kids at school notice
these kinds of things and hadn’t always been as compassionate as you would
hope.
So out came the checkbook and on went the braces.
Izzy has known this day was coming for a couple of weeks.
Let me tell you peeps, the dramatics have been through the roof. I call it the
wounded bird routine. Basically it’s a term for a child who is so addicted to attention
that she will stop at nothing to draw it in. Even pulling out the fake drama
card in order to gain sympathy.
This drives me crazy.
It drives her crazy when I tell her to knock off the wounded
bird routine. But as a mother, I can’t bear having a child who acts this way.
ALL THE TIME.
When I went to get her from school, she was hiding under her
desk. Soaking up all the attention from her classmates in the room.
I think this can only get worse as she gets older but here’s
to hoping for the best.